I grew up thinking and believing you only get one life to live so you should get as much out of it as you can because it`s the only chance you have at that one life but i strongly disagree with that. The way i see it you actually have about six lives you will live and the first one was i imagine as the best one when you lived comfortably and warm all cuddled up in your moms womb without a worry in the world and unfortunately i don’t think any of us remember have any memories of these precious what is usually 9 months of living in your moms womb in comfort and if we ever had a problem we don’t remember it but i don’t believe we ever did i think it was as close to being in heaven as we could ever get..Thats one life but then we start what i call a whole new life when i think we are born again and introduced to a whole new life and a new world that we all have to get to know and learn about and that’s when mom and dad come into the picture and have to teach you all about this knew life that you never seen before and probably couldn’t see.i don’t know how long it takes before you can actually see good i know it`s different for all newborns but it`s not long before your seeing a whole new life that has been waiting nine months for you to introduce yourself to the real world. then you still have a few years before you really have to worry about it because for the first few years of your life you’re going to have mom and dad to take care of everything for you.Through all these toddler years your parents will make sure your healthy comfortable warm and never go hungry and for many years to come. then after a few years of being a toddler it`s time to start a whole new life and you will start going to shool and having teachers that your going to have to get useto telling you what to do becaouse it`s something your not useto and you have to play by a whole new set of rules.But it`s not all bad because now your finding all knew friends and you go out to play at ressous and when you get out of school youll probablly have a knew bike to ride with your friends and you might go fishing or play baseball or football or anything you want because your at that great age in another whole life that is mostly fun but your about to enter another whole life because your getting a little older where you enter a knew and more grown up shool that everything is going to start looking a little different. All your studies are going to look different than they did when you were in junior high and your going to look at sports a little different like if your going to join the football team or the baseball team it`s not going to be the same and your going to find out things are much more lean like your coaches and your teachers will be a lot more stern.But other things are going to change to and some in avery nice way. By this time puberty has moved in when you weren’t looking and by now you have noticed you may look at girls differently and chances are you probably have a girlfriend by now so a lot has changed in your life.i have to apologize it seems i have turned this into a male blog and i apologize for that it wasn’t on purpose.So anyway your about done with your 4 years of high school and you have had 4 years of doing a lot of thinking witch i am sure had a lot to do with your future and i’m sure most of it has to do with your future weather you went through any special training in high school like vo tech something to do with carpentry or mechanics or something your gonna make a future out of to make your next life and you may have a woman in your life that may be a part of your whole knew life your about to begin.If you can understand what i am saying is your about to start a whole new life and its called being and adult that probably involves the most important part of your new life, a wife and soon children and i consider this to be the best part of your life if you do it right and everything goes right and by that i mean hopefully you have a good marriage and all your kids take the right road and live straight. It doesn’t always work because unfortunate things can go wrong with your marriage just pray it doesn’t work out that way. Then god forbid your kids may take that wrong path in life and we pray that never happens but unfortunately sometimes very sadly it does. Well this is where parents really come in and we start a whole new life because it’s time we start being the mom and dad we always counted on to take care of us and keep us safe but now it`s our turn and we had better do it right or there could be a lot of problems, in other words being a mom and dad is not easy. It may not always be easy but it can be the best time of your life doing things with your kids and watching them grow up.If you have sons you can take them fishing or teach them how to play baseball or football or any sports they may like but if there are some things they like to do then you just learn to like them to so you can have fun with them no matter what it is, and make no mistake your kids have very big memories so when they get older they will remember what you did with them all of there lives and that will show in how they love you when they get older. Then we have our daughters witch as a dad it`s a little harder subject but i know they enjoy things like soccer or volleyball and even playing instruments like a clarinet The whole point is this is the biggest part of your life and this is the one you only get one chance at and you better get it right because if you dont there are so many things that can and will go drastically wrong. For one thing if your marriage goes wrong it`s over and there’s no looking back, unfortunately this happens and it may not be your fault but no matter whose fault or if it`s no ones fault it happens and that’s a bad thing you can’t do anything about but when it comes to your kids it`s all up to you how you make that work and you better do your best because like i said a long time ago way back when i started talking about kids they have great memories and they will remember everything you said or did throughout there whole childhood and i mean all of it it may seem hard to believe but they will remember things you said or did from the time they were like 4 years old and i know that sounds crazy but it’s true because i have 4 of my own and i can remember being in the hospital when i was 3 years old with pneumonia and remember being in a crib eating spaghettios or something and when my parents said no way you can remember that i said did i come home and sleep in your bed and have a little plastic car that you guys bought me in the hospital and i was crying because i dropped it behind the bed and they were shocked that i remembered that. So that’s just an example of what your kids remember so just remember to treat them the way you’re going to want them to treat you when you get old and you’re going to need them and their love and probably a lot of their attention and more than you want but sometimes more than not you need them a lot. I started this to explain how we dont have just one life to live and now i want to tell you about another one which you allready figured out